Counseling in Chicago and greater Illinois
Specializing in Menopause Mental Health, Postpartum Depression, Anxiety, Depression, Relationship Issues, Parenting Support and Coaching, and Grief
Counseling in Chicago, Illinois
Counseling Chicago: Are You Exhausted From Holding Everything Together?
Everything feels stressful right now. There are so many things pulling you in so many directions. Your life isn't going the way you thought it would. You were told that getting older would bring wisdom and confidence, that things would get easier. But right now, you feel even more unsure of yourself than you did when you were younger. That gap between what you expected and what you are actually living is its own kind of grief.
There is so much to balance. You want to be a good parent, and you wish that there was a handbook for it, something to tell you whether you are doing it right. Your relationship with your partner feels trickier as life keeps getting busier and busier. And your friends, where did they go? You know everyone is going through this same season of life, but you miss them. You feel lonely.
A lot of the time, you don't even recognize yourself. Your mind is often racing. Your body often feels older than it actually is. The motivation to get through everything is hard to find, even though so many people and so many things depend on you. You keep showing up for everyone else, but somewhere along the way, you stopped showing up for yourself.
You want to feel back in control of your life. You want to feel good about the path you are on. You want to believe that this feeling isn't permanent.
I'm Sarah Schufreider, LCSW
Sarah Schufreider, LCSW Counselor in Chicago
I'm Sarah, a licensed clinical social worker offering counseling in Chicago, Illinois, and I help people who are navigating life transitions feel more in control and more like themselves again. Whether you are stepping into parenthood, managing the physical and emotional shifts of perimenopause or menopause, working through relationship challenges, grieving a loss, or simply reckoning with what it means to get older, you do not have to figure it out alone.
I have been doing this work for more than 17 years, and in that time I have worked with people from every walk of life. Small children and elderly adults. In domestic violence programs, inpatient hospital settings, a homeless Veterans shelter, and an outpatient private practice. I say this not to impress you, but to reassure you. I have seen a lot. Nothing you tell me will make me fall out of my chair. Nothing has yet!
I work with clients in a way that is down to earth and real. There is space here to process the hard stuff, and there is also room for humor and lightness when that is what the moment calls for. Therapy does not have to feel heavy every single session. Sometimes the most healing thing is to laugh a little and remember that you are more than your hardest moments.
My Approach to Counseling
My approach to counseling in Chicago is built on three things I genuinely believe in.
You are the expert in your own life. I bring mental health expertise and help facilitate the process, but you know yourself and your situation better than anyone. This is a fully collaborative relationship, not something I do to you or for you.
I work from a strengths-based perspective. That means we do not ignore the things you want to change, but we also do not overlook what is already working. In my experience, motivation for change tends to grow when people become more aware of the strengths and skills they already have. We build from what is solid.
I believe deeply in the mind-body connection. How you feel physically affects your mental health, and how you feel mentally affects your body. Because of this, I often integrate breathwork, mindfulness, meditation, and body-based practices into sessions when clients are open to it. I am also a registered yoga teacher and certified in Trauma Informed Yoga. That does not mean you will be doing yoga poses in our sessions, though you are welcome to if the mood strikes. It means that the relationship between your mind and your body informs everything about how I approach this work.
YOU DON'T HAVE TO KEEP DOING THIS ALONE!
You have been carrying a lot, and you have been doing it for a long time. The fact that you are reading this tells me you are ready for something to be different, even if you are not sure yet what that looks like or where to start.
Reaching out is the first step. To learn more, you can reach out in one of the following 3 ways:
call Sarah directly at 657-217-7641
email Sarah at sarah@sixheartscounseling.com
fill out the contact form here
I’d love to help you. Click here to schedule your free 15- minute phone consultation for counseling in Chicago.
Online Counseling in Illinois
Currently Offering Virtual Telehealth Sessions for anyone based in Illinois
Being completely virtual allows more flexibility for clients to be able to meet with me around their busy schedules.
Most clients meet with me virtually every week. That consistency matters. It creates a steady container of support so that life starts to feel less like one long crisis and more like something you are actively navigating, on your own terms. am based out of Chicago, but am able to see clients who reside anywhere within the State of Illinois.
Frequently Asked Questions About Chicago Counseling at Six Hearts Counseling
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If you have been feeling overwhelmed, disconnected from yourself, or like you are just going through the motions, that is often a sign that having consistent support could help. You do not need to be in a full crisis to benefit from therapy. Many people come to counseling because something feels off and they want help figuring out what that is and what to do about it. If you read this page and something resonated, that is worth paying attention to.
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Life transitions can look very different from person to person. Some clients come in navigating the physical and emotional shifts of perimenopause or menopause. Others are adjusting to parenthood, working through relationship challenges, grieving a loss, or simply trying to make sense of what getting older means for them. If you are in the middle of a major life change and feeling unsteady, this work may be a good fit.
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Not at all. In fact, many clients find that starting counseling before things reach a crisis point makes the work more effective. You do not have to hit a breaking point to deserve support. Feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure of yourself is enough of a reason to reach out
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Sessions are held virtually, which means you can connect from wherever you are most comfortable. Sarah is licensed in the state of Illinois, which means she can see clients who reside within the state. Sarah works in a down to earth, collaborative way. At the beginning and throughout the work, psychoeducation will be provided to better understand what is happening in your mind and body and assess the various impact that different factors are having on your life. Some sessions will focus on processing difficult emotions or life circumstances. Others might incorporate breathwork, mindfulness, or body-based practices when that feels useful. There is also genuine room for humor and lightness, because healing does not have to feel heavy every single week.
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Yes, all sessions are held virtually using a HIPAA compliant Telehealth system.
Research consistently shows that virtual therapy can be just as effective as in-person therapy.
Teleheath can be utilized to help with a variety of concerns including anxiety, depression, and life transitions like menopause. Many clients find that the flexibility of virtual sessions actually makes it easier to show up consistently, which is one of the strongest predictors of good outcomes in therapy. Many clients even express surprise at how much they like virtual therapy, even if they initially wanted in person sessions.
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That depends on you, your goals, and what you are working through. Some clients come for a focused period of time around a specific transition or challenge. Others find that ongoing support serves them well over a longer stretch. We will talk about what feels right for your situation and revisit that as the work progresses.
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That is more common than you might think, and it is completely okay. You do not have to come in with a prepared agenda or a clear sense of what you need. Many clients start by simply describing what their day-to-day life feels like right now. That is enough. The conversation will unfold from there, and Sarah will help guide the process.
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Fit matters enormously in therapy. The research consistently shows that the quality of the relationship between client and therapist is one of the strongest predictors of good outcomes. If past therapy felt like a mismatch, it may simply mean that the approach or the relationship was not the right one for you. A consultation call is a low-stakes way to get a feel for whether working with Sarah makes sense for where you are right now.
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For the most current information about fees and insurance, please visit the Fees section of this website or reach out directly at 657-217-7641. In addition to cash payments, many clients use out-of-network benefits or health savings accounts to offset the cost of therapy.
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Yes. What you share in sessions stays between us, with a few specific legal and ethical exceptions that Sarah will walk you through at the start of your work together. Knowing that what you say stays in the room is part of what makes it possible to be honest and do real work.
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The fact that you have been trying to handle it on your own is not a sign of strength alone. It is also a sign of how much you have been carrying without support. Therapy is not for people who cannot cope. It is for people who are tired of coping alone and are ready for something to actually change. You have already proven you can survive this. Therapy is about learning to thrive.
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Yes. Sarah has worked in domestic violence programs and has extensive experience supporting survivors of trauma and intimate partner violence. This is work she takes seriously and approaches with care, skill, and deep respect for each person's pace and process.
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It means that while we absolutely make space for what is hard and what you want to change, we also pay attention to what is already working in your life. You have real skills, real resilience, and real capacity, even if it is hard to see that right now. Building awareness of those strengths does not minimize the pain. It creates a more stable foundation from which to do the harder work.
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Not at all. The body-based practices Sarah integrates, including breathwork, mindfulness, meditation, and body awareness, are always offered as options, never requirements. If they appeal to you, they can become a meaningful part of your work together. If they do not feel right for you, that is completely fine. The work adapts to you, not the other way around.